Reversing traditional roles

Trophy Husband is a platform for career focussed females to find a partner who is comfortable making Homelife a priority

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Who is a Trophy Husband?

A Trophy Husband possesses a different set of career and life goals. They are men and partners who:

Enjoy working but their career is not everything. Relationships, lifestyle, family and balancing these is the priority.
Are unchallenged by the idea that women excel in their careers and that their female partner’s earning potential may be greater than theirs.
Have 'done the corporate thing' and realised that there is more to life than working! They are seeking a family and home life, and a strong professional partner who is on an upward career trajectory.
Have a successful working life but wish to support a career-focussed partner and will embrace a flexible approach to their career.
See themselves as a partner and/or a father who wants to be around the home.
Are pivotal to the ability of their feminine partner achieving career success.

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Who is looking for a Trophy Husband?

You are looking for a Trophy Husband if you are:

Ambitious, driven, exceptional at your job, and on a trajectory to be senior in your chosen career.
Would like to have a family, an active home and social life, and a partner to share your life and success with.
Looking for a partner who is your equal but is comfortable and capable of being the primary carer and support in the home.
Would like the freedom to be career focussed and not compete with your partner for career priority.
Comfortable with bearing the primary financial responsibility.

How it works?

Trophy Husband creates introduction opportunities for those looking to share family, life and career – with a twist.

The twist is the flip of the roles often typecast in traditional marriages and partnerships.

Trophy Husband is a place where career focussed females can find a partner that is comfortable and capable of fulfilling the challenging supporting role in the partnership.

It is also the place when men who have a different set of career and life goals and can realise their desire to be the partner to juggle work, family, and life in the home.

Is this what you have been looking for?

From our community

Like all things in life, home and life partnerships are a balance and success is often achieved when roles are defined and appreciated. Before Trophy Husband was available we spoke to a number professional couples who have successfully mixed family and career in this special way. These are some of their stories.

Tanya

Surgeon

This is for men who are secure in themselves, and their masculinity, that they are not threatened by fulfilling the home support role.

Penny

Chief Executive Officer

I categorically would not have got where I got in business without my husband. He handles the home and kids and runs his gym equipment business while they are at school and I am working.

Kylie

Recruitment Executive

I said to Hamish before we got married, 'you will be sorely disappointed if you expect me to do housework well. Luckily Hamish enjoys cleaning and cooking, and he's 10 years older than me, so he left the insurance company and does handyman work around the area. He loves it and so do I!

Rebecca

Lawyer

The other day our youngest child said: "Daddy's get so tired. There's always so much for Daddy's to do!! He cooks dinner and helps me pack my lunchbox, takes me to ballet, does the shopping, and helps me with my homework!"

I asked: "What about mummies?"

She said: Mummies are best for hugs when they come home from work!!"